I got the call from Bill the Realtor about 4 yesterday afternoon. Hubbell (the house builder) countered our counter by agreeing to our request for the 7 deciduous trees and then met us halfway between our counter offer price and theirs. Bill…who’s a cool character for sure…sounded pretty amazed that they had agreed to everything we’d asked for and still come down on the price.
I’m happy with the deal, but I gotta tell you, I’m still not sleeping. Didn’t fall asleep until 1:30; then my eyes flew open at 5, thinking about sideboards and dinette sets and bar stools and craigslist and flat screens and going back to work.
I did manage to remember to say Thanks, God! somewhere in there, so there may still be a shred of hope that buying a new house isn’t going to turn me totally into a materialistic pagan pig.
Maybe.
You know what this whole thing feels like? It feels exactly like that buzz you get in those first minutes after giving birth. Like you’ve done this great and wonderful and amazing thing…climbed Mt. Everest!…and after that comes this huge endorphin rush. Suddenly, you feel skinny and smart and rich all at the same time.
Then…right after that comes this tiny niggle of a thought that maybe, just maybe, this is going to be harder than you thought. And you might be in a little over your head. Spending time and money on stuff not even imagined yet. Not to mention all that cleaning up of inordinate amounts of baby poop and barf for the next hundred years.
Or maybe it’s like finding a gorgeous pair of outrageously expensive shoes… on clearance for 90% off. You snatch them up and pay for them and it’s like you’re having this out of body experience, until you get home and put them on and they pinch the crap out of your baby toe. You wanna live in those shoes, but first you gotta figure out what to do about that toe.
Hey…nobody said shakin’ it up in the second half was gonna be easy.
Life as we know it, in the teeny-tiny hobbit hole village of Tom-and-Cherie-ville, IA, is coming to a close.
Which is a good thing AND a crap load of work. Seems like those things just gotta go hand in hand.
Dat what dis new momma say…
February 29, 2008 at 8:12 am
Cherie!
I want to be the first to congratulate you on the birth of your new, and very expensive, little girl. You deserve her. It’s your turn to shake it up, baby!
As you know, girls need lots of pretty things… frilly things… things that just enhance their beauty and make them all the more desireable to everyone around them. Things that cost a lot of money. Things that you didn’t think about before you decided to give birth to that beautiful little girl. Things that will make you ask yourself, “What in the @(!$% was I thinking?!!” But I digress.
Welcome to the out-of-body-experience!You’re the man, girl!
Love ya, Patty
February 29, 2008 at 8:35 am
“You know what the whole thing feels like?”
YES I do, WELCOME TO MY WORLD. ROFL!
And SUPER DUPER congrats on that brand new baby girl. She’s gunna keep you up at night for a while, you’re gunna change a LOT of dirty diapers and she’s gunna cost a FORTUNE to feed for the first year. LOL
After that it’s smoothe sailing…and then like us, you do it all over again and again and again and……………….I think I need to lay down I feel morning sickness coming on.
If you need help decorating I’d be happy to help. E-mail me and I’ll give you a linky to the house I live in now so you can be thinking if some of my ideas might be your ideas. I have quite a few big antique pieces mixed in with my other stuff and it all flows (so far so good). =)
March 2, 2008 at 11:26 pm
OH, I am so happy for you!!! What a leap of faith. I am also proud that you could make a decision so quickly. I have labored over replacing our worn-out kitchen floor for five months – still no action. I can’t imagine thinking new house, wanting new house, finding new house all within 30 days!! You have a “decision gene” in addition to the “smart-arse” gene. What is next, selling your other house or can you rent it out?
March 18, 2008 at 6:33 pm
Did you get my e-mail with the link? Keep checking back – I got some wall words and new drapes for my dining room =)
March 19, 2008 at 9:16 am
Sandy – Leap of faith is EXACTLY what it is…most of my time these days is spent vacillating between prayer and hyperventilation. I would like to have waited longer,if we hadn’t found The House so quickly. But that’s pretty much the story of my life…I have an idea, then spend the next 6 hours (or 6 months) talking myself out of it. This is SO unlike me…
March 19, 2008 at 9:23 am
Darla – I DID get your link and went and checked in a couple of times. Just been too busy to get back to you. WAY COOL HOUSE!! I’m so retarded when it comes to fabrics, so I especially like seeing what you’ve done with those. Love your site too…and will spend more time there, once things settle a bit. Thanks!
ps No snow OR rain for us w/this last storm. I hung my spring wreaths in celebration…
March 23, 2008 at 9:15 pm
I’ll be adding more here shortly as I just got a new dining room buffet. =)
I got some super good deals from the goodwill that I listed on my site. I’m going to the land far far away tomorrow and I hope to be bringing home more good deals.